Your Hopes and Fears for Making a Change in 2013

At LYJ’s latest Career Workshop for Women Lawyers earlier this month, we asked participants to brainstorm their list of hopes and fears for making a change.

What is the value of asking these questions as we head into a New Year?

Many of us carry around “fear” amorphously and free-floating yet never examine more closely to see

By |December 13th, 2012|Discovering Passions and Interests, Job search, Tools / Exercises|Comments Off on Your Hopes and Fears for Making a Change in 2013

What’s Your Sentence?

I’m currently reading Daniel Pink’s Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us. It’s a lively, fascinating read emphasizing how workplaces that use carrots and sticks miss the mark on what truly engages people.

Like Pink, I enjoy thinking about the importance of a sense of purpose to our lives, and encourage jobseekers I work with

By |October 18th, 2012|Book Review, Purpose, Tools / Exercises|Comments Off on What’s Your Sentence?

So, What’s Your Motivational Mantra?

When it comes to the job search process, my clients know that one of my mantras is: “When in doubt, refer to the job posting.” I use this phrase all of the time when people come to me with questions about how to tailor their resume, what to include in their cover letter, or what

By |July 23rd, 2012|Inspirational Quotes, Job search, Purpose, Self-Care and Personal Well-Being, Success, Tools / Exercises|Comments Off on So, What’s Your Motivational Mantra?

Don’t Ask How, Ask Why

Here’s a simple tool for when you find yourself stuck or frustrated with a goal in your life. Shift your focus temporarily from WHAT you want and HOW to get there to WHY you want it.

As an example, a friend of mine, Lindsay Nichols Estes, is working on growing her coaching practice. She re-energized herself

By |May 15th, 2012|Purpose, Self-Care and Personal Well-Being, Success, Tools / Exercises|Comments Off on Don’t Ask How, Ask Why

Making Peace With the Present

Fill in the blank for this statement: “When XYZ happens, then I will be happy.” When I lose 10 pounds, am in a relationship, or have a certain (usually indeterminable) amount of money all fit the bill. Often it’s when I find a more satisfying or higher-paying job, or for many right now, any job

By |May 1st, 2012|Discovering Passions and Interests, Goals, Job search, Self-Care and Personal Well-Being, Success, Tools / Exercises|Comments Off on Making Peace With the Present

One Thing a Day Toward a Job You Love

Much earlier on the LYJ blog, I wrote about doing one thing a day toward your career and job search. I went on to develop a handout to use in my classes since many people get overwhelmed by the enormity of a job search and need ideas on where to get started. Breaking the process

By |February 26th, 2012|Enhancing career skills, Job search, Success, Tools / Exercises|Comments Off on One Thing a Day Toward a Job You Love

9 Simple Solutions for Procrastinators by Christine Kane

After researching a wide variety of time management materials for my LYJ classes, I’ve determined that my favorite and most effective resource is a simple article by Christine Kane. I’ve received permission to re-post here on the LYJ blog.

In my class, I have participants read the article aloud. I then ask everyone to go back

Affirmations for Jobseekers

In my LYJ (Love Your Job) Search Class, I like to provide participants with a list of affirmations to choose from while we’re working together. Affirmations can be powerful tools to make sure your inner mindset matches your external actions. If the voice in your head is telling you it’s a terrible economy, there are

By |August 16th, 2011|Enhancing career skills, Job search, Networking, Tools / Exercises|Comments Off on Affirmations for Jobseekers

What’s Your Career Fear?

Do you know what thoughts and beliefs are unconsciously sabotaging your career dreams? Discover your career fear, the biggest free-floating anxiety churning through your mind. The scenario you want to avoid. Flip the fear around and create a powerful statement that affirms its opposite.

I recently asked LYJ client Marina to look five years into the

By |June 14th, 2011|Discovering Passions and Interests, Enhancing career skills, Goals, Success, Tools / Exercises|Comments Off on What’s Your Career Fear?

Need a Favor? Ask For It! Job Search Help From Your Network

Women love to help others, but often find it difficult to ask for help themselves. But if you’re looking for a new job, it’s time to get over that fear: Enlisting others in the hunt is much more effective than going at it alone.

The easiest way to begin is to send a friendly (read: not

By |June 6th, 2011|Enhancing career skills, Interviews, Job search, Networking, Tools / Exercises|Comments Off on Need a Favor? Ask For It! Job Search Help From Your Network